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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: Which form to file for custody order: FL-260 or FL-300?

I have an open case with Department of Child Support Services, but I do not have a visitation agreement in place. The mother currently has physical custody of our child. I want to establish a custody order because the mother is withholding our child for personal reasons. Should I file form FL-260... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on May 12, 2025

If you do not have any existing/open case related to custody you need to file an initial petition. That can be a Petition under FL260, or a Petition to Establish Parental Relationship (aka paternity or parentage) - FL200. The Petition opens your case and you are assigned a case number. You can... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support, Public Benefits, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: Should my disabled daughter's SSI be included in income for FL-150 in California?

I need to file an FL-150 for my child custody case. My 2-year-old daughter, who is disabled, receives SSI. I am currently not working, as I stay home to care for her. My husband, who is not my daughter's father, works. I am filing a regular income and expense declaration and want to know... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Apr 30, 2025

You include that "income" on the FL150. You have to disclose it. When a minor child receives Supplemental Security Income (SSI), some of the child's income and resources can be "deemed" available to their parents, affecting the parents' own income and benefit... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Domestic Violence, Child Custody, Civil Litigation and Family Law for California on
Q: DVRO hearing claims false and custody modification inclusion?

I represented myself in a combined Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO) and modification of custody hearing. Although the claims of domestic violence were false, I lost because I didn't know how to present my case. The petitioner's original DVRO request didn't include custody... View More

Mario Tafur
Mario Tafur
answered on Apr 28, 2025

The inclusion of custody modification in the DVRO hearing likely triggered the application of Family Code Section 3044, which establishes a rebuttable presumption that awarding sole or joint custody to a parent who has perpetrated domestic violence within the past five years is detrimental to the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Civil Litigation, Domestic Violence and Family Law for California on
Q: Could telling a child they won't get birthday presents due to lawyer fees be emotional abuse?

My boyfriend's 12-year-old daughter is involved in a custody case where her mother hired a lawyer following the receipt of custody hearing paperwork, leading to $3000 in lawyer fees. Her mother told her she wouldn't receive birthday presents due to these fees. The child has expressed... View More

Mario Tafur
Mario Tafur
answered on Apr 28, 2025

California courts prioritize the child’s best interests, focusing on their safety and emotional well-being (Family Code Section 33.07). For the mother’s conduct to be deemed emotionally abusive, it must be shown to be extreme and outrageous, resulting in significant emotional distress (Belen v.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Family Law, Child Custody and Domestic Violence for California on
Q: How do I convince the judge that my recordings made during my granted TROs are relevant to this custody issue ?

When our family case judge would not accept them in my DVRO case per PC 633.6 (b) they were legal

Mario Tafur
Mario Tafur
answered on Apr 25, 2025

Drawing from precedent, Br. C. v. Be. C., 101 Cal. App. 5th 259, demonstrates that recordings are admissible when the victim testifies they were made to document abusive behavior for their protection or to support a restraining order application. In that case, the court admitted recordings... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: What forms are needed to file an initial custody case?

What forms need to be filed for initiating a custody case when there is no existing custody case, divorce, or immediate concerns involved?

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Apr 15, 2025

It depends. Are you married to the other parent? If not, you initiate a "parentage" action or a Petition for Custody. If you are married and you want custody orders, why not file for divorce or legal separation. In any case, the steps to take are listed on the court's website at... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Civil Litigation and Family Law for California on
Q: Seeking to sue ex for emotional distress after child abduction and custody battle.

I'm considering suing my ex for emotional damage and distress. He abducted our child from my care in 2020 when she was only 1 1/2 years old, and I've been fighting to regain custody since then. We repeatedly return to court every 3-6 months, with the next mediation scheduled for May 14th,... View More

Mario Tafur
Mario Tafur
answered on Apr 15, 2025

In California, a claim for intentional infliction of emotional distress (IIED) requires demonstrating that your ex-partner’s conduct was extreme and outrageous, intended to cause or recklessly disregarded the likelihood of causing emotional distress, and directly resulted in your severe emotional... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Family Law and Appeals / Appellate Law for California on
Q: Husband signed away parental rights; seeking to regain them in CA.

My husband voluntarily signed over his parental rights for my stepson four years ago, without fully understanding the consequences, due to manipulation from his ex-girlfriend. This was done merely with a notary involved and no legal representation. We attempted to appeal the decision shortly after,... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Apr 2, 2025

This is abundantly unclear. By what legal process did he "voluntarily sign over his parental rights?" Appeal what decision? There are very few legal circumstances by which someone can relinquish their parental rights. One such circumstance would be in the case of an adoption (by a... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: Seeking advice on custody of 4 children amid divorce in California.

My wife wants a divorce, and I want custody of our four children, who are all five years old. We don't have any shared assets, and there are no existing custody arrangements. My wife also wants custody. We have attempted discussions, but nothing has been agreed upon. What should I do to pursue... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 25, 2025

Requesting custody orders will be a part of your divorce proceedings. Someone files a Petition for Dissolution and the other party files a Response. Each person indicates in the Petition (and in the Response) what custodial arrangement they want. Then, concurrently with filing the Petition (or... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I request a default judgment in parentage case if respondent hasn't responded?

I had a court date on March 11, 2025, regarding a parentage case. The respondent filed a request to quash the case, citing my relocation to a new county, but the judge ruled against quashing. During that session, the judge also confirmed paternity, and the respondent signed a paper acknowledging he... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 18, 2025

Default occurs when the Respondent does not file a response to the petition for parentage (aka paternity; aka Petition to Establish Parental Relationship). The responding party is not necessarily in default because they do not file a response to other types of filings such as a Request for Order.... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Divorce, Criminal Law and Family Law for California on
Q: Can I move back to Ohio with my daughter during divorce?

I am a stay-at-home husband, a veteran with 100% permanent and total disabilities, earning $50,000 a year. My wife works part-time, and I cover all living expenses. We moved to California six months ago temporarily to stay with my wife’s parents, but our home and my insurance are still based in... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 15, 2025

Since no one has filed anything yet and therefore there are no court orders, you are free to move wherever you want. Since you have both lived here (CA) for at least 6 months, Mom can likewise, file here in CA and get custody orders in place, forcing you to bring the child back to CA from Ohio.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Landlord - Tenant and Family Law for California on
Q: Can my boyfriend's parents evict me from their property in California?

I live in a travel trailer owned by my boyfriend's parents on their property, along with my boyfriend and our baby. My boyfriend's parents are filing for custody of the baby, but they're pretending my boyfriend is initiating it. The custody paperwork states we are... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 11, 2025

Two very different issues here. One issue is a landlord tenant issue the other is related to child custody. 1) Generally speaking, yes, the homeowners can evict you from their property assuming you are not on any lease or other legal agreement with the property owners regarding your continued... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Child Support and Arbitration / Mediation Law for California on
Q: Is mediation mandatory for my child support and custody case with no current court dates?

I am involved in a child support and custody case. The other party has not followed prior court orders and has failed to serve me. There are currently no court dates scheduled, and I would like to know if mediation is mandatory in this situation, or if I can move directly to seeking legal... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 10, 2025

mandatory mediation is scheduled once a party files a Request for Order for custody/visitation. If no such motion has been filed, no hearings are pending, and you have not been sent an order from the court regarding mediation, then you are not required to go to mediation or set one up.

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Civil Litigation for California on
Q: What impact does a mother's admission of violating custody have on contempt proceedings and following a mediator’s recommendation?

I currently have a 50/50 custody arrangement with my son's mother, established in 2022 after a previous incident where she took my son to Texas, requiring intervention from the abduction unit. In October 2024, she violated our custody order by taking our son to Sacramento for two months and... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Mar 9, 2025

Of course you have to introduce evidence at the hearing. Further, that evidence should be included in your moving papers with a supporting declaration to lay its foundation. Whatever happens in mediation is confidential. Nothing that is said in mediation is admissible in court. Given the... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody and Family Law for California on
Q: Can a parent file for custody without a divorce or separation in CA?

One of the parents of a child currently living with both parents is concerned about custody issues. There is no existing custody agreement or court order in place. The parents are experiencing issues, and one has previously threatened to take the child. Can a parent file for custody of the child... View More

Padideh Seyed Jafari
Padideh Seyed Jafari
answered on Feb 28, 2025

Yes. A parent can file for custody of the child without a divorce or separation finalized in California. However, there does need to be an open family law case in order to request custody orders. A family law case can be opened in different ways depending on the specific circumstances. Here are... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Adoption, Child Custody and Civil Litigation for California on
Q: Can I request mandatory visitation if consenting to son's adoption in CA?

My child's mother has requested my consent for her spouse to adopt my son in California. My son was unlawfully taken by her from Nevada, and she successfully petitioned for full custody in California. Attempts to contact her over the years were ignored. They have filed an adoption petition,... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Feb 21, 2025

You are either consenting to the adoption or you are not. Once the child is adopted by the step-Dad, you will lose your parental rights and lose your right to make any demands including for visitation. If you don't want that to happen then you should contest the adoption. In some... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Child Custody for California on
Q: Can a sheriff serve custody papers without a residential address?

I am seeking to have a sheriff serve custody/visitation papers for a minor child, but I do not have the residential address of the person to be served. I have provided the minor child's school address and the names of the people he lives with. I live far away and cannot go there myself, which... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Feb 21, 2025

The Sheriff, just like any other process server needs a physical address where the person to be served can be found. If you don't know their residential address, you can use their work address. If you don't know that either and you have done your homework and done your due diligence to... View More

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4 Answers | Asked in Child Custody, Family Law and Arbitration / Mediation Law for California on
Q: Seeking pro bono lawyer for CA child custody case

I am seeking a pro bono family law lawyer to assist me with a child custody case. The father currently has full custody of our children, while I have reasonable visitation rights. However, he has kept the kids from me for almost a year and is now attempting to retain full custody and move out of... View More

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Feb 21, 2025

You are not alone. Millions of Californians seek free legal representation. Many in worse situations than yours. There are agencies like Legal Aid, but their funding simply cannot provide legal representation for everyone in need. Attorneys do strive to provide pro bono services more than most... View More

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support and Family Law for California on
Q: Steps to file for divorce and address custody in California.

I have been married for 13 years, and my spouse and I have been living apart for more than 2 years. We have 3 children together, but no significant assets or properties. We haven't agreed on child custody yet, but I'm currently paying child support every month. I haven't started the... View More

Tobie B. Waxman
Tobie B. Waxman
answered on Feb 19, 2025

1) hire an attorney; 2) don't use social media, Google, or this website to teach you how to be your own lawyer. The court's website has a self-help link if you insist on handling this on your own. https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/divorce-california

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2 Answers | Asked in Divorce, Family Law and Child Custody for California on
Q: I just filed for divorce and child custody and my soon to be e ex wife works in family law in the same courthouse

How can I get the venue changed seems unfair to me and a conflict of interest

Robert Kane
Robert Kane
answered on Feb 6, 2025

You will need to file a motion to transfer a family law case (i.e. change of venue.) A family law case will be moved to another county if you can prove to the court a fair trial would not be possible because your wife works in family law in the same courthouse. My best regards. Rob California... View More

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