How many days do I have to retrieve belongings from ex's house?

Question

I moved out of my ex's house a year ago, but he allowed me to store some belongings in his basement. Recently, he texted me saying I have 5 days to retrieve my items, which include significant possessions. There are no formal agreements or court orders regarding my belongings. We also have a child together. How many days am I legally entitled to for removing my items from his house?

James L. Arrasmith · Answer

This kind of situation is hard, especially when shared history and a child are involved. In Oregon, there’s no specific law that sets an exact number of days for retrieving personal belongings from someone else’s home in a situation like yours. However, once someone gives you clear written notice—like your ex’s text saying you have 5 days—it can start the clock legally if the court sees it as a reasonable deadline. 
 
That said, because your items have been stored there for about a year with his permission, it’s not unreasonable to ask for a little more time if you need it. You can respond to his message and request a specific date when you can pick everything up. Try to keep it calm and clear, and if possible, arrange a safe, documented handoff—especially if there’s any tension between you two. 
 
If he refuses and throws your things out, he could be responsible for damages, but it’s best not to let it get to that point. Communicate in writing, be polite but firm, and try to get your belongings as soon as you reasonably can. Your goal is to avoid further conflict while protecting your property and your peace of mind.

Q: How many days do I have to retrieve belongings from ex's house?